People ask me how I became interested in travel. I was quite young
(19) when I met Evelyn, my wife. She was a product of the "legal"
immigration process. Her family had come to America from Germany in the
early 60's. We met in August of 1968. We were both around 20 and I
was enthralled by the intrigue of dating someone with a cute accent and a
distinct cultural difference. Over the next year, I took German
classes and spent a great deal of time with her, all of which lead to
our planning to move to Germany for a couple years.
I
had been out of the state, several times, but had never been out of the
country. For Evelyn, it was not exactly old hat, but it was something
she was much more calmly objective about. She was fluent in the
language and knew what to expect. We finally set the date and booked a
flight on a "United European American Club" charter airline. That was
in May of 1970. The anticipation of actually traveling out of the
country was quite invigorating. It was also a nervous time, since I
really didn't know what to expect.
Berlin was our
destination, because it was the city of Evelyn's birth and she had a
strong desire to return to it, at least for a time. We landed in
Frankfurt and purchased train tickets to Berlin. The passage through
East Germany, where the locomotives were exchanged from a more modern
diesel locomotive to a steam locomotive, the intimidating inspections by
East German police and dogs, is a story on its own. Perhaps I will go
through that sometime. We arrived, however, in Berlin at around 6:00
a.m., local time, to find that nothing--no restaurant, fast food place,
or store was open. We walked up and down the main street, known as
Kurfürstendamm, and looked in store fronts for two hours when some
stores did start opening. We had breakfast of sorts at Aschinger, a
restaurant that was famous for its split pea soup and bread rolls, but
is no longer in business. The next few days, leading up to a form of
permanence as a resident of Berlin, were adventurous, exciting,
challenging, and got me hooked on wanting to experience new national and
international cities.
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Kurfürstendamm by night |
It
started with me getting a hand full of coins for the pay phone and
Evelyn catching public transportation to a distant aunt's apartment in
the southern part of West Berlin. She was not sure how her aunt would
take bringing a total stranger with her, so it was agreed I would use my
poor school German to call ads in the local newspaper, to find a
temporary place to stay. It was quite a challenge, since I had never
truly used what little skill I had in the language for anything beyond
greetings. I found it quite invigorating to realize I could, in fact,
communicate questions and ideas over the phone in the German language. I
ended up finding a room for a price I thought reasonable and was told
which buses would bring me to that location. Following the directions I
had received, I was able to get to the "hotel" pretty easily. The room
I had rented had a bed that was cheap, worn out, springs and a flimsy
mattress. Accepting my "luck" in finding such a miserable room, I
settled in and took a much needed nap.
When I woke, I
decided to take a walk. It was late afternoon and was already starting
to get dark. The hotel was on a major road and was lined with a wide
variety of store fronts. Most, it turned out, were strip joints or peep
show stores with some very explicit posters of what one would find in
those establishments. I was particularly surprised to find several
obvious prostitutes standing in front of some of those places, many of
whom were American and Black. I resolved I would find somewhere else to
stay for the following night. I understood why the rate I had paid for
the room was so low. It was apparently a room used by the hookers for
their activities.
I located another pay phone and
called the number Evelyn had given me for her aunt. I had never been so
glad to hear her voice. She asked me where I had ended up and, after
telling her where I was, she relayed that to her aunt. She--her aunt
Hildegard Radis--immediately became frantic and insisted that was not a
good part of town. It was the "famous" Berliner red-light district.
Wouldn't you know it. My lack of knowledge of Berlin and the language
got me into an area I would otherwise have avoided like the plague.
Tante (aunt in German) Hildegard insisted I get out of there and come to
her place. I told them, because I had already paid for the room, I
would go ahead and spend the night and go to her place, the next
morning. As you can imagine, the room was very noisy, all night, and I
didn't get the sleep I had hoped for, not to mention the fact the
springs in the bed were shot and the mattress was short on padding.
The
next morning, I packed my suitcase and found a bus (using directions
from Tante Hildegard) and made my way to her apartment. It was an old
building with very dated apartments. It was, nevertheless, a
comfortable apartment. Hildegard and her significant other were
gracious hosts, but we decided to make early efforts to find another
place to stay. I had to register as a foreign resident and get a work
permit, so we set out right away to do that. After receiving the
necessary permits, I went to the employment office. I had worked for
several years as a welder, first for the Hunter's Point Naval Shipyard
and then at Gillig Brothers School Bus Manufacturers, so it made send to
apply for a job as a welder. I was fortunate enough to find a job with
an overhead crane manufacturer in a suburb called Reinickendorf. As a
side benefit, the job came with a one room apartment on the fifth floor,
in an older building with no elevator. It included a shared toilet in
the stairwell, between floors, and a portable shower in what served as a
kitchen.
Evelyn and I had planned on spending a year or
two in Berlin. She, as a German citizen with an American green card,
was allowed to stay out of the country for up to two years. At the end
of the two years, she had to go back to America, so we planned on going
back to California at that time. It became a little more complicated
when first her brother decided to move back to Berlin, and then her
parents sold their house in Newark, California, and moved back to
Berlin. They said they thought we were going to stay there, so they
decided their place was with us. Well, we did go back to America at the
end of the two years, but only for a little over a month...on
vacation. We went back to Berlin and resumed our adventures, there.
Now it was in my blood. We made quite a few excursions, to other places
in Germany and other countries, but that will be for a future entry.